I’m still processing our trip to Southern California. It was both a wedding celebration and a mini family reunion, including the colorful Croatian characters (she said fondly) who are our family-by-extension.
There were hugs in abundance.
And I was always a bit off, don’t you know. Out of sync.
When I hug, I head straight for the shoulder.
But their first destination is the cheek, for the preliminary kiss just before the hug.
It made me think.
How many styles of hugs are there? (Caveat: I’m strictly talking about hugs between friends, not between lovers.)
• The man hug – with the double triple pat on the back.
• The handshake/hug which perhaps starts as a handshake and ends as a hug.
• The bear hug.
• The side hug.
• The cheek kiss/hug.
• The double cheek kiss/hug. Vive la France!
• The air kiss/hug.
• The litle peck kiss/hug.
Sooooo — how do you hug?
A hug is like a boomerang – you get it back right away.~ Bill Keane
Hugs are the universal medicine.
~ Author unknown
Funny story: years ago, some friends were leaving on a trip and as Jan and I hugged each other, I–for some odd reason–got my wires crossed and kissed her. On the eye. Whatever sadness we had at parting evaporated into giggles.