Her Own Room

Girl Embroidering 
Georg Friedrich Kersting (c.1814)

The desire for a room of one’s own was not simply a matter of personal privacy.  It demonstrated the growing awareness of individuality–of a growing personal inner life–and the need to express this individuality in physical ways.  Much had changed since the seventeenth century.  […]

We know immediately that the room [in painting] is hers.  Those are her plants on the windowsill; it is her guitar and sheet music on the settee; it is she who has hung the picture of the young man on the wall and draped it with flowers. […]

Fanny Price, the heroine of Jane Austen’s novel Mansfield Park (written the year before Kersting painted this picture), had a room where she could go “after anything unpleasant below, and find immediate consolation in some pursuit, or some train of thought at hand.  Her plants, her books–of which she had been a collector from the first hour of her commanding a shilling–her writing desk, and her works of charity and ingenuity, were all within her reach; or if indisposed for employment, if nothing but musing would do, she could scarcely see an object in that room which had not an interesting remembrance connected with it.”

~  Witold Rybczynksi in Home, A Short History of an Idea

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Did you have your own room when you were a child? 

I did, but it was a closet.  I loved that little room…most of the time.  Another post, another day.  My husband always shared with his brother, shared with his roommates, shared with his wife.  He’s never had a room of his own.  [moment of respectful silence]   There are worse things to endure!  And that bit about my husband  having to share hasn’t been mentioned in decades.  So don’t think he’s bitter. [wink]

My thoughts are like children bursting out the school door for recess.  Screaming with exhuberance, focused on the far side of the playground, these thoughts will not stand still.  So let them gallop and romp.  There will be time for corralling soon enough. 

What Steinbeck Saw in 1960

[on urban growth]

People who once held family fortresses against wind and weather, against scourges and frost and drought and insect enemies, now cluster against the busy breast of the big town.  p. 72

[on interstate highways]

When we get these thruways across the whole country, as we will and must, it will be possible to drive from New York to California without seeing a single thing.  p.90

[on food from vending machines found at rest areas]

The food is oven-fresh, spotless and tasteless; untouched by human hands.  I remembered with an ache certain dishes in France and Italy touched by innumerable hands.  p.91

[on mobile homes]

The first impression forced on me was that permanence is neither achieved nor desired by mobile people.  They do not buy for the generations, but only until a new model they can afford comes out.  p.99

[on uniformity of speech throughout the nation]

Just as our bread, mixed and baked, packaged and sold without benefit of accident or human frailty, is uniformly good and uniformly tasteless, so will our speech become one speech.  I who love words  and the endless possibility of words am saddened by this inevitability. For with local accent will disappear local tempo.  The idioms, the figures of speech that make language rich and full of the poetry of place and time must go.  And in their place will be a national speech, wrapped and packaged, standard and tasteless.

Travels with Charley, In Search of America

Lulus and A Travel Quote

My favorite annual is the Lulu Marigold (Tagetes tenuifolia)
When petunias are leggy (or eaten by the deer),
pansies are wilted (or eaten by the deer),
these Lulus carry on.

They have the smell of a marigold,
but the look of lace and ferns.
They are the last bit of color in the fall,
surviving light frosts.

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I’m 76 pages into John Steinbeck’s Travels With Charley.  I’ve filled four journal pages with quotes.  His observations on traveling, people-watching, and pondering resonate with me.  I grab my task-oriented husband by the shirt and make him listen to a paragraph.  “How does he do that – write so compellingly?” the busy man wonders.  While I suspect that Steinbeck is coming from the point of view of determinism, I can agree with the next paragraph in light of God’s providence. 

Once a journey is designed, equipped, and put in process, a new factor enters and takes over.  A trip, a safari, an exploration, is an entity, different from all journeys.  It has personality, temperament, individuality, uniqueness. 

A journey is a person in itself; no two are alike.  And all plans, safeguards, policing and coercion are fruitless. We find after years of struggle that we do not take a trip; a trip takes us.  Tour masters, schedules, reservation, brass-bound and inevitable, dash themselves to wreckage on the personality of the trip. 

Only when this is recognized can the blown-in-the-glass bum relax and go along with it.  Only then do the frustrations fall away.  In this a journey is like a marriage.  The certain way to be wrong is to think you control it.  (p. 4)

Remembering Plum


P.G. Wodehouse, born October 15, 1881

What would life be without Wodehouse?  Such a funny, funny man.  I’ve said it before – I’m quite thankful for Jeeves and Wooster (two of his main characters), especially for all the literary allusions and quotes in their dialog. “Getting” the references is one of the joys of a reading life.

Here’s some fun interplay between P.G. Wodehouse and Dorothy Sayers which my son recently found:

“Pardon me, my lord, the possibility had already presented itself to my mind.”
“It had?”
“Yes, my lord.”
“Do you never overlook anything, Bunter?”
“I endeavor to give satisfaction, my lord.”
“Well, then, don’t talk like Jeeves.  It irritates me.”
                ~ Lord Peter Wimsey and Bunter in  Strong Poison by Dorothy L. Sayers

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“Well, you perfect chump,” cried Nobby, “don’t you know that that dishes him?  Haven’t you ever read any detective stories?  Ask Lord Peter Wimsey what an alibi amounts to.”
                ~  Zenobia “Nobby” Hopwood in Jeeves in the Morning by P.G. Wodehouse

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“What’s his name?”
“Bredon.”
“Where’s he from?”
“Hankie doesn’t know.  But Miss Meteyard’s seen him.  She says he’s like Bertie Wooster in horn-rims.”
                ~  Mr. Jones in Murder Must Advertise by Dorothy L. Sayers

Child Prodigies



When I read Poiema’s review in March, this book went on my list of books to be read.  In the distant country of my childhood, I played the cello; a lingering fondness for that instrument permeates my soul.  The fact that the author was also a cello player made me eager to read his work.

About a third of the way through the book I had convinced myself that I really didn’t need to keep this book.  I’m still undecided; I loved parts about music intersecting with life, the grown up child prodigy teaching a young child prodigy.  The back story of the trial for the murder of a Buddhist monk didn’t interest me. There are, however, some passages too wonderful to escape my journal. 

[Maestro’s instructions] That is the way to approach your music.  Every piece, every time you play it, is unique and irreplaceable.  Your should open your ears and heart to every phrase, every note and squeeze every drop of beauty you can from it. Take nothing for granted!

[Reminiscent of Robert Greenberg’s Frame of Silence]  This immediately made me think of the kind of silence I used to love, the instant before I would start a piece and the audience would quiet down to absolute stillness.  I always held the bow over the strings for a few seconds too long, just to relish that incredible vacuum, when a hall filled with hundreds of people could become so quiet.  No one ever, ever sneezed, coughed or budged until I offered release with the first note.

Bach, there can be no doubt, brought classical music to perfection. He expressed his musical ideas with devastating precision and understatement.  Each piece is like a finely cut diamond: clear, simple and almost mathematical in appearance, but underneath the surface what complexity and structural integrity! The possibilities for interpretation are limitless; just as there are countless ways to project light through a diamond, no two performances of Bach can be the same because each musician’s unique personality has its own spectrum of feelings that can be conveyed freely through Bach’s inventions. 
When I was very young one of the reasons I was able to hear a piece of music and then play it right back without having to look at a score was that for me each musical phrase had not so much a color or flavor as a texture

The whole subject of child prodigies fascinates me.  So many prodigies seem very close to prodigals, not in the sense of extravagant waste, but in the sense of being  far away, socially and metaphorically.  During the time that I read The Soloist, I previewed the movie Hilary and Jackie (too dicey to recommend, although the music was gorgeous), about the life of the du Pré sisters, particularly the tormented and fragmented life of the cellist Jacqueline du Pré.  This book and that movie both left me feeling sad: sad for the weight of great giftedness and sad for the lack of appropriate parenting of the children with such gifts.

I’ve always admired and respected Yo-Yo Ma, who has a short appearance in the second chapter of The Soloist.  In contrast to most prodigies, Mr. Ma’s life seems very balanced.   He is passionate about music, but his life evidences an integrity and wholeness that many performers lack.

Distillation

To distill means to separate the subtle from the coarse,
and the coarse from the subtle,
to render the fragile and breakable unbreakable,
to transform the material into the immaterial,
the physical into the spiritual
and to beautify what is in need of beautification.

Hieronimus Brunschwig of Strasbourg, 1512


Let my teaching drop as the rain,

My speech distill as the dew,
As the droplets on the fresh grass,
And as the showers upon the herb.

~  Deuteronomy 32:2

I was returning a book on lavender to my friend at church today.  In the car on the way, I skimmed through it and lit upon the Brunschwig quote.  Fascinated, I copied it down.  When class began, the first verse we looked at was the one above.   I love intersections of thought, don’t you?

What Saturday Brought

Saturday brought….a gathering of my kids, more pesto production, a celebration of a century (my DIL’s mom’s 50th birthday Sunday and my upcoming 50th birthday), fresh apple cider, a build your own burrito feast, many hugs, kind words, smiles and good wishes.  It brought a huge surprise!  I walked into the kitchen and my oldest sister (and surrogate mom) from Chicago was waiting to give me a hug.  I loved to have her enter my world, meet my friends, love my people.  Her birthday was yesterday. 

Saturday also brought a PaperBackSwap book in the mail, The Philosopher in the Kitchen by Jean-Anthelme Brillat-Savarin, and, with it, this quote.  It provided a hearty laugh.  I give it to you with apologies to my thin readers.

But for women it [thinness] is a frightful misfortune;
for to them beauty is more than life itself,
and beauty consists above all in roundness of form
and gracefully curving lines. 

 


Cheerfulness as a Weapon

Wondrous is the strength of cheerfulness, altogether past calculation in its power of endurance       Carlyle (quoted by PoiemaPortfolio)

She could do that.  She could infect a whole house with gaiety and she used her gift as a weapon against the despondency that lurked always around outside the house waiting to get in at Tom.              John Steinbeck in Cannery Row

That is how she seems to take life: no suspecting of motives: looking for, therefore perhaps finding, kindness on every side.            O. Douglas in Penny Plain

 In spite of her losses, Nancy Beechum Feltner was not a frightened woman, as her son would learn. He would learn also that she was a woman of practical good sense and strong cheerfulness.  She knew the world was risky and that she must risk her surviving child to it as she had risked the others, and when the time came she straightforwardly did so.          Wendell Berry in That Distant Land