Let Us Not Grow Weary


A modern monument in the Shere Church Graveyard
(Does this remind you of Timothy Botts’ calligraphy?)

Here is the “translation.”

I think Wesley’s quote is missing something.
Don’t mistake me, I love it.
But, it could become a recipe for grim frustration.
Maybe I’m still a bit tired…

I think it needs a bit about “with faith” or “in God’s strength”.

What do you think?

When we entered short doorways in the UK,
there were signs which said, “Mind your head.”

I need that sign this Monday,
as the tasks of the next two weeks loom large.

Mind your head.

Blessings on your day (or evening).

P.S. Did you check out the Botts link?
You are in for a real treat.
He’s been a favorite artist for decades.


Macro Thanksgivings

Yesterday, the girl I’m tutoring was restless and excited.
She had one day of school this week before a trip home.
We needed an absorbing subject.
We explored the rudiments of macro (closeup) photography.

The tulip is a universal icon of the close-focus mode.
Sure enough I found a tulip on our camera.

These pix are still not close enough to be considered macro.

It was fun
… to look at the back yard differently.
… to find strawberries that had been hiding
… to see fall colors yesterday which are blanketed with white snow today
… to learn something completely new
… to begin the learning process with my camera
(if I learn one new trick a week, I’ll know 18 tricks before Scotland)

Does your digital camera have a tiny tulip icon on it?
(Mine was on the LCD display, after I pressed a “focus” button.)

“Gratitude unlocks
the fullness of life. 
It turns what we
have into enough, and more. 
It turns
denial into acceptance,

chaos to order,
confusion to clarity. 
It can turn a meal into a feast,

a house into
a home,

a stranger into a friend. 

Gratitude makes sense of our past,
brings peace for today,
and creates a
vision for tomorrow.”
 
Melody
Beattie

(thanks to my SIL Kathie for that quote
…and for the box of 25 (!) travel/guide books
which arrived yesterday.  Woot!)

Thrills in the Thrift Store


This is one sweet book.  I’ve held my DIL’s copy hostage for at least
two years.  Now I can remove it from my PaperBackSwap wish list;
my request was 79 of 87 for the hardcover, 67 of 77 for the paperback!


Soap dispenser that matches my shower curtain!


I’ve been looking for art for my guest room.  I don’t like the frame
color on this Monet, but paint covers a multitude of sins. $9.99 <grin>


This little wooden figurine reminds me of Christian in Pilgrims Progress. 
It will go on the bookshelf near that book.
A profile shot reminds me of Carson’s backpack.


This water pitcher appealed to me more when I picked it up than just looking at
it. It just felt good to hold.  Mel liked it too.  I offered it to her. She demurred.
I offered it again.  She was concerned about getting it home unbroken.
I went for the kill, and offered to buy it for myself.
Christian service, and all.


The pièce de résistance is a footed cake stand. 
I have secretly yearned for a footed cake stand for several years.
There it was.
Goodbye Tupperware.
In the beautiful life, glass trumps plastic every time.


Kitchen Project – Silver and Linens


Ironing
is a bit like cooking.
You can certainly live without doing it,
but you occasionally suspect that
the time you save isn’t worth
what you sacrifice.
What you give up is this:
a small, but indelible act of grace.

~ Monica Nassif in Laundry, The Spirit of Keeping Home



The fact that you are a Christian should show
in some practical area of a growing
creativity and sensitivity to beauty,
rather than in a gradual drying up of creativity,
and a blindness to ugliness.

~  Edith Schaeffer in The Hidden Art of Homemaking

It is scarcely surprising then, that so many people
imagine housekeeping to be boring,
frustrating, repetitive, unintelligent drudgery.
I cannot agree.
Each of its regular routines brings satisfaction
when it is completed
. These routines echo the rhythm of life,
and the housekeeping rhythm is the rhythm of the body.
You get satisfaction not only from the sense of order,
cleanliness, freshness, peace and plenty restored,
but from the knowledge that you yourself
and those you care about are going to enjoy these benefits.

~ Cheryl Mendelson in Home Comforts

Baking bread, weaving cloth, putting up preserves,
teaching and singing to children,
must have been far more nourishing
than being the family chauffeur or shopping at super-markets,
or doing housework with mechanical aids.
The art and craft of housework has diminished;
much of the time-consuming drudgery–
despite modern advertising to the contrary-remains.
In housework, as in the rest of life,
the curtain of mechanization has come down
between the mind and the hand.

~ Anne Morrow Lindbergh  in Gift from the Sea

Ideas inspired from these authors,
which have been percolating for some time,
are coming to fruition.

My tall son emptied the cupboard above the fridge –
a tottering pile of tarnished silver.
As I polished each piece I thought of ways
to incorporate these beautiful wedding gifts
into our life more regularly beginning now.

My favorite piece is this bread plate.
This month I’m baking the communion bread for our church.
This Lord’s Day I will put the loaves on silver plates.

I found cloth napkins in four (!) different cupboards and drawers.
Using the container principle, I found a large basket to hold them.
I touched them all up and folded them uniformly.


Lost treasures (birthday placemat) were uncovered.

A table runner from Ecuador, never used. Aren’t the colors magnificent?

With boys grown and gone, I have room in our guest room closet to hang the tablecloths …

…leaving room in this cupboard for my basket of napkins and runners.

Drudgery?  Are you kidding?  Glory!!
It’s amazing
how invigorating,
how liberating,
 how energizing
 clean can be.

Thank you, Lord!


The Search for a Beautiful Life

I remember with shamed face my attitude towards my bridal registry.  We were not china people at all.  So impractical!  So materialistic. So unnecessary.  So frou-frou.  It was stoneware for us.  Not local, hand-thrown pottery, just an ugly orange and yellow flower on a beige and brown background.  It was the 70s.  We had no patience with spending money on beautiful things.  “You can be just as hospitable with a paper plate as with a china plate.”  Yep, those words came from my mouth.  True statement, but the problem was that I truly thought paper was more spiritual than china.   Now I shudder at the arrogance. 

The times they are a changing.  Really, our minds are changing. 

My mother in-law and I had our annual garage sale.  The sale this morning was slow, so I went around my MIL’s neighborhood to the other 10-15 sales.   I bought a couple bags of books, 6 for a dollar, to post on PaperBackSwap.   Then I saw it.  A complete set of china in Christmas colors.  But there were only 8 place settings and we often have large gatherings for holiday meals.  I argued with myself about all the reasons not to get it and walked away.

After the sale was over, I told Mom about the dishes. 

“Oh,” she sighed, “I’ve always thought it would be fun to have Christmas dishes, but at my age we’re getting rid of stuff, not acquiring it .”

“Talk me out of it,” I challenged her.

“Does the set have serving dishes?”

“Yes, a bowl and a platter; it even has creamer and sugar bowl.”

“Where would you keep it?” she continued.

“I just cleaned a space in the garage cupboards.”

“How often would you use them?”

“They would be my everyday dishes starting the First Sunday of Advent. I’ll use them through Christmas.”

“Let’s go look at them.”

When we arrived her eyes got large.  “Oh my yes, they are lovely.”

Guess what?  The set, called Magnolia, includes two extra dinner plates!  We can easily have ten adults, and kids can use salad plates. The seller was asking $40.  I offered her my entire profit from my own garage sale, $27.  Sold! 

The First Sunday of Advent is December 2.  I can’t wait.

~     ~     ~   

A platter I picked up for $4 with this tablecloth in mind.


A 5×7 sized art book which I got for a quarter.

…because I especially loved this Degas.
 

which will go up in my small laundry room!

The longer I live the more beautiful life becomes.
If you foolishly ignore beauty,
you will soon find yourself without it.
Your life will be impoverished.
But if you invest in beauty,
It will remain with you all the days of your life.

~ Frank Lloyd Wright

August Books, Part One

I make it a habit to read books that help me in my role as homemaker in August.  September is a sort of New Year with school starting back up, and August is my month to try to get the house deep-cleaned, or the month to tackle a time-consuming project.  So over the years I have read books about frugality, organization, cleaning, laundry, healthy eating, etc. in August.

My husband shakes his head back and forth and sighs.  You see, he is a doer.  He bounds out of bed in the morning (usually) and has “the list” in his head, written down at home and written down at work.  He excels at prioritization, is realistic about the time it takes to accomplish a task, and hasn’t an ounce of procrastination in his body.  To his logical train of thought: if the house is dirty, clean it!   Just do it!
 
Well, um, my philosophy is more along the lines of Read About It First, Think Deep Thoughts, Talk about Doing It, before actually doing it.  This works well with a major lifestyle change like deciding to homeschool, but is probably overkill for dusting under the bed.

Nevertheless, I find that well-written books rev up my engine and get me excited, even if it’s about a new improvement such as using a squeegee to wash my windows instead of an old diaper or the good old newpaper-and-vinegar method. It recalibrates my brain and gets me on the right path again. My batteries get charged and I’m motivated to start ticking away. 

This August, thanks to Dana, I’m reading Edith Schaeffer’s The Hidden Art of Homemaking, Creative Ideas for Enriching Everyday Life.  What a treasure chest of thoughts, ideas and inspirations!!  This book is so much more than cooking, cleaning and laundry. 

I’m encouraged to search for beauty in all aspects, every medium of my everyday life and find ways to bring that beauty to the surface. Reading through it reminds me of my SIL Kathie, who is always putting a vase of freshly cut flowers on her table or arranging food to be served in an aesthetically pleasing manner. 

I’m thinking about ways of implementing some of the ideas I’ve read about so far.  Do you get into a rut of “same-ol-same-ol” like I do?  Like any improvement there is a time of intense focus and concentration and then the dreadful “slippage” starts, and, before you know it, it’s August again!

How do you *cultivate* beauty in your life?

These I Have Loved

I love to read lists like this.  Having it in poetical form is delight upon delight.  What are some of your favorite items?  I especially like the strong crust of friendly bread, and hair’s fragrance. Don’t you love hugging a friend and smelling her/his hair?  Or am I weird?  Rupert Brooke hits all the senses doesn’t he? 

These
I Have Loved

 
These
I have loved:

White
plates and cups, clean-gleaming,

Ringed
with blue lines; and feathery, fairy dust;

Wet
roofs, beneath the lamplight; the strong crust

Of
friendly bread; and many-tasting food;

Rainbows;
and the blue bitter smoke of wood;

And
radiant raindrops couching in cool flowers;

And
flowers themselves, that sway through sunny hours,

Dreaming
of moths that drink them under the moon;

Then,
the cool kindliness of sheets, that soon

Smooth
away trouble; and the rough male kiss

Of
blankets; grainy wood; live hair that is

Shining
and free; blue-massing clouds; the keen

Unpassioned
beauty of a great machine;

The
benison of hot water; furs to touch;

The
good smell of old clothes; and other such—

The
comfortable smell of friendly fingers,

Hair’s
fragrance, and the musty reek that lingers

About
dead leaves and last year’s ferns—

                                                Dear
names,

And
thousand others throng to me! Royal flames;

Sweet
water’s dimpling laugh from tap or spring;

Holes
in the ground; and voices that do sing—

Voices
in laughter, too; and body’s pain,

Soon
turned to peace; and the deep-panting train;

Firm
sands; the little dulling edge of foam

That
browns and dwindles as the wave goes home;

And
washen stones, gay for an hour; the cold

Graveness
of iron; moist black earthen mold;

Sleep;
and high places; footprints in the dew;

And
oaks; and brown horse chestnuts, glossy-new;

And
new-peeled sticks; and shining pools on grass—

All
these have been my loves.

 Rupert
Brooke (1887-1915)

Tasty Morsels

A new food discovery!!  Yippee!!  The flowers of chives are edible.  I had a delightful time learning from “Baba”, the grandmother of Joanne, a graduating homeschool student.  We were stuffing mushrooms and ran out of the stuffing. 

Ah, the joy of improvisation!!  We poked in the fridge and thought out loud and came up with an herb/cream cheese stuffing that was delightful.  Baba went to the garden and cut fresh herbs and I mashed the cream cheese. We added a little Caesar’s dressing and some garlic. Baba came in with a handful of chive flowers and thought they would be lovely sprinkled on top.  She washed them carefully and separated them into tiny fragments.  With a dubious attitude I tasted one: delicious!

These guys can go in salads, on top of omelets.  Can you think of other uses?  Is this even news to y’all?  I came home and looked at my two chive plants and the flowers are all beyond the beyonds; pretty droopy.  But I’m excited for this new tasty bit of information!

A Happy Sigh

Today: oh what a day!  I took a day trip, driving alone for two hours and with a friend for two hours in a borrowed car.  It was the first time in my life that I’ve driven a Cadillac.  A snazzy red Cadillac!!  It was the smoothest ride of my life, bar none!  I drove along a corridor of snow-capped mountain peaks, the Elkhorns on one side and the Eagle Caps on the other (the picture is the Eagle Caps).  As I passed the marsh a Canadian goose flew just above my car.  Cattle and antelope were placidly grazing on grass.   To say the day was glorious is so woefully inadequate.

I just met my friend at the first of the year.  Shortly after we met she was diagnosed with cancer.  Today we drove to her daily radiation treatments.  We chatted as effortlessly as if we’d know each other for decades.  She told me how to roast veggies in the oven on cookie sheets, about a great consignment store in her town, and together, we covered a host of other topics. She is so comfortable in her skin that it’s a pleasure to be with her.

When I was alone I cranked up the stereo and gloried in the rich tones and aching beauty of classical music.  Sigh.   Offenbach, a Cadillac and the Eagle Caps.  All this, and heaven besides?

Mini-Makeover

Cook’s Illustrated is one fine magazine.  My dear friend Katie gave me the idea of using the illustrations from the back page for kitchen decorations.  At the same time (and unaware of my plans) my brother and his wife gave me years of these magazines, bound in books.  My beloved DIL Jessie helped me pick out frames, cut out pictures, frame them, and hang them.  Are you getting the (valid) impression that I need a lot of help? Ha!!  It’s true!

The top two are Brassica (cabbage family) and Fresh Chiles; the middle frame is Potatoes; the bottom are Berries and Basil.  I just **love** looking at this wall!

The exciting thing is that I have dozens of these back covers (shellfish, apples, olives, plums, pasta, squash…many more) and can change the prints with the seasons or whenever the mood hits.  Yes!!  Sigh….life is good.