who have mysteriously missed my tulips this year:
Thanks chumps!
The crisp onions were making a great crackling,
and on a cold night the smell was enough to
draw water out of dead teeth.
Here’s a better idea. Read some authentic Scottish fiction, written by a Scot. You cannot improve on Robert Louis Stevenson’s Kidnapped; I am especially fond of John Buchan
and his sister Anna, who wrote under the pen name O. Douglas
.
Morning Tide, a coming-of-age story set in an impoverished fishing village takes you to the shore of the sullen, relentless sea and into the cottage of the MacBeth family.
Life is harsh, difficult, but not without comfort of onions and the pleasure of practical jokes. Twelve-year-old Hugh MacBeth is always hungry, often running, impatient with school, and coming to grips with the reality of a harsh life.
He [the schoolmaster] was clever,
there was no doubt of that.
And he could speak seven languages.
Seven. Ay, ay.
The old men nodded their heads.
Learning was a great thing.
They looked far beyond one another.
A great thing, learning.
A far and wonderful thing.
There was no denying that.
It was a strange thing, too.
Its strangeness excited them a little,
and its wonder.
Love of learning was in their marrow.
I’ve mentioned before my husband’s excellence at note writing and his blessings. Never sappy, never sentimental, sometimes funny, but always thoroughly wonderful. While I was helping my son cook his own birthday dinner (Bolognese sauce, pasta, focaccia and green salad) Curt sat down and wrote a card. With permission from both the giver and the recipient, here it is:
Always,
Dad
Sing Me to Heaven. Setting by Daniel E. Gawthrop. Text by Jane Griner
In my heart’s sequestered chambers lie truths stripped of poets’ gloss
Words alone are vain and vacant, and my heart is mute
In response to aching silence, memory summons half-heard voices
And my soul finds primal eloquence, and wraps me in song
If you would comfort me, sing me a lullaby
If you would win my heart, sing me a love song
If you would mourn me and bring me to God,
sing me a requiem, sing me to Heaven
Touch in me all love and passion, pain and sorrow
Touch in me grief and comfort, love and passion, pain and pleasure
Sing me a lullaby, a love song, a requiem
Love me, comfort me, bring me to God
Sing me a love song, sing me to Heaven
(Thank you, Brenda.)
I love a good wedding. Our dear Jackie married Zack; it was a day of soaring highlights, re-connections and robust celebration . Zack and Jackie, ahem!, met in my Shurley Grammar class. They spent another year with me studying Shakespeare. Here is a journal of my reflections.
:: The attendants were all related to the bride and groom. There were more guys than gals, so the procession included the seating of the mothers and grandmothers. It was wonderful to have all the close family included in the official beginning of the wedding.
:: You know music is important to me. The entire family/wedding party came down the aisle to Non Nobis Domine (Not to us, O Lord, but to Your Name give the glory) from Henry V. If you listen to the link, the bride made her entrance around 2:35 where the orchestral fanfare builds. I watched–through a cataract of tears–my people (son, daughter-in-law, grandsons, dear friends) process past me. I will never listen to Non Nobis again without thinking of a radiant bride smiling at the man she loves.
:: Black Chocolate Wranglers. There are benefits to marrying a cowboy.
:: It was a large wedding, ~ 500 guests. The bride’s family emptied their barn and made it suitable for a celebration. (look at the picture below…coming out of my husband’s ear is a chandelier made out of wagon wheels) Family and friends pitched in to set up, decorate, cook food, iron tablecloths, pull weeds, serge fabric, and park cars. It was such a joy to be able to help a family who are normally the helpers.
:: Generational blessing. Every decade in life was represented in the room full of guests. Grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles: extended family were abundant. Babies, babies everywhere! There were easily thirty pregnant moms and fifty babes in arms. Have I said what a blessing it is to be part of a community that loves and values children?
:: I glanced to the back and saw Carson, Johann, and Jamie standing–bouncing, rocking–with babes in arms and Leah next to them standing with her arms resting on her pregnant belly. All these kids were in my classes. They spent endless hours playing flashlight tag, snowboarding, eating pizza and talking about life. Now they live hundreds of miles apart. A sob of gratitude bubbled up. Look at them!
[Reading these books is a part of my plan to read around the world.]
Where Nights Are Longest: Travels by Car Through Western Russia by Colin Thubron (re-issued as Among the Russians
) will likely be more interesting in about twenty years. A travel memoir written in 1983 before the dissolution of the Soviet Union seems dated now, but its historic value will endure.
My goal in my reading plan was to read and release, to clear off my bookshelves. I didn’t account for Thubron’s elegant prose and cogent commentary. Alas, I must keep this book, if only to pick it up and feed on the phrases later.
Three things I liked: 1) I saw the essential religious nature of life. In the former Soviet Union the Soviet State presides in the place of God. Thubron’s continual framing of the secular culture in religious terms fascinated me.
2) The snapshots of quotidian life and the average Russian/Armenian/Estonian/Georgian citizen. Thubron, a solitary traveler, has a talent for engaging folk in extended conversation. He drank volumes of vodka–it seems to be a prerequisite to talk–but one gets an idea of how the common man perceived his life.
3) I have a latent love of Russian literature. I’ve read Tolstoy and Dostoevsky, Chekhov and Solzhenitsyn…but they are a fading memory. Thubron goes on a pilgrimage to homes, graves, and villages, visits with Pasternak’s daughter, takes in Tolstoy’s home, Turgenev’s estate. After reading those chapters, I wanted to clear my schedule and immerse myself in those thick books full of patronymic confusion and clear thinking.
My favorite quote is about the tension between the laws of hospitality and the laws of conscience:
Jeffrey Taylor’s adventure is 90% existential self-actualization, a proving to himself of his own worth. Though he faces extreme physical hardship, especially suffocating heat, his greatest peril comes from traveling in Zaire, an unstable country made violent by the policies of the dictator, Mobutu.
Taylor’s prose is graceful, but his perceptions often fall flat. His descriptions of poverty are persuasive, his sketches of the Africans he meets fill your mind. There were sections of the river–cannibal territory–so dramatic, I had to read while I blew-dry my hair. The tension dissolves into an empty ending with precious few lessons to take home.
This book makes me want to read Joseph Conrad’s Heart of Darkness, one of those classics which escaped my high school lit classes. Thubron’s book makes me want to read all
his
travel
books
.
To the company that deducted money from my bank account with the helpful description BILLPAYING: Thank you. Because if it weren’t for the delay unraveling that sweet bowl of spaghetti, I wouldn’t have heard a distant bank teller ask, “What’s this book sale where you buy books for a dollar an inch?”
Excuse me? How did one of the High Holy Days–the opening hours of the book sale–so quickly become Passover? When did I get so busy that I missed the first sixteen hours of the annual university book sale?
Glumly, I considered not going. Surely all the good stuff was gone and I would have to root around in Judy Blume and Danielle Steel looking for a morsel. But lo! I remembered that my literary tastes are so far out of the mainstream that they are completely dry. Perhaps there were some unplucked treasures waiting for me.
Here, my friend, are my top five finds, books I snatched up as I breathed a prayer of thanksgiving.
Ever since watching Wit, I have wanted to get this book.
No man is an island…in this book.
Prayers, meditations, expostulations…in this book.
A sermon on the verse: And unto God the Lord belong the issues of death,
said to be Donne’s own funeral oration…in this book.
The Church Hymnal (1892) Episcopal
679 hymns + 211 canticles and Amens!!
I will spend hours at the piano, mining for gold.
The New Oxford Book of Christian Verse
Withdrawn from library with
completely blank Date Due sticker in back!
Poems from William Langland to Wendell Berry.
This book looks like gangs of fun.
The subtitle explains why I couldn’t resist.
Heat: An Amateur’s Adventures as Kitchen Slave, Line Cook, Pasta-Maker, and Apprentice to a Dante-Quoting Butcher in Tuscany
Well, well, well.
I can’t wipe the grin off my face.
…happy, contented sigh…
Children are the living messages we send
to a time we will not see.
Postman paints a bleak picture. What he suggests is to limit media’s access to children (not the other way around, hmmm) both by limiting exposure and content and by always critiquing what you watch/hear with your children.
Since I read this book, I’ve noticed other people noticing the loss of childhood: this New York Times op-ed piece, this tabloid cover I saw at the grocery store.