Simply Books

I had a delightful experience in the Minneapolis/St. Paul airport.  I discovered a lovely bookstore: tasteful displays, no magazines, a few deep chairs, and, best of all, book quotes posted all around the store.  After some pleasant, light  book talk with the employee, I took out my journal, settled into the deep chair and started copying quotes.  Here are just a few:

A book is like a garden carried in a pocket.    Chinese Proverb

What is reading but quiet conversation.     Walter Savage Landor

Literature is the memory of humanity.     Isaac Bashevis Singer

What I like in a good author is not what he says, but what he whispers.     Logan Pearsall Smith

Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body.      Joseph Addison

‘Tis the good reader that makes the good book.     Ralph Waldo Emerson

Knowledge comes, but wisdom lingers.              Tennyson

I bought a book:  Good Poems for Hard Times edited by Garrison Keillor.  Several are already flagged for repeat readings. 

Coming as soon as I can figure how to upload pictures here in PA: My day as a Penn State football fan.  With, WITH, my friend, shots of the great coach Joe Paterno.  He is affectionately called JoePa by the fans here.

Yesterday we spent a lovely, sunny day going to Johnstown and seeing the two flood museums.  With David McCullough’s The Johnstown Flood fresh in my mind, it was absorbing, but sobering.  My brother and I have already spent several nights up beyond midnight talking, talking, talking.  I am soaking up the girl time with his wife, three daughters and granddaughter.  It’s so different from my male dominated environment at home, such a lovely change! 

Flirtin’ in Church

I felt his gaze before I saw it.  My eyes wandered toward him and our eyes locked.  He held my gaze, as if by command, and then a slow, demi-smile started across his face.  I turned away and concentrated on playing the piano. 

The next time I looked over at him, he had shifted to get a clearer view.  Now it was a full frontal stare.  My cheeks warmed and I allowed a small smile to work its way onto my face.   He sensed the control he had over this situation. His eyes started dancing; he grinned straightforwardly and unabashedly. 

My propriety weakened; I winked at him. 

He moved again and the top of the chair framed his sparkling eyes.  He shifted so I could not see him.  Slowly, his face came into view between two chairs.  Distracted, I searched for my place in the music.  I took a deep breath and refocused on my duties. 

Those insistent eyes kept tempting me and finally I snuck another glance.  So far down the slippery slope of brazen behavior, I winked again.  His grandpa winked back at me.  My cheeks are hot.  Next song.



 

My Son and His Beloved

This was taken at an abandoned mine during the annual family backpacking trip earlier this month.  They look happy don’t they?  They’re getting married at the end of the year, Lord willing.  Yay!

Edit – Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday DS#2, Happy Birthday to you!  May God bless you beyond all that you could ask or think in the year ahead.  We love you, dear boy!

FHB

A quaint little family story, gleaned from my recent visit with my sister:

I grew up the youngest of seven children.  Guests were a part of every Sunday dinner and we probably averaged 15-20 people around the extended table.  At times our family lived hand to mouth, (or prayer to prayer) but my mom was a pro.fess.ion.al. at making enough food to fill everyone up.  However, occasionally it appeared that there might not be enough to go around.

When that happened, FHB was whispered and passed from kid to kid.  It was a code for “Family Hold Back”, an signal to take smaller portions or pass the bowl by to make sure the guests were served first.

As with many of our family stories, I can’t remember this; but I love the story!  I don’t know anything about Lorraine Russell’s book – just found it on Google images!

Coming Home

One of my high school girlfriends coined the word ro-tic (pronounced ROE-tick) for all those situations and settings that were so romantic, minus the man.  You know, a boat trip, a sunset, or a lovely walk in the woods – that would be perfect if a man who loved you was participating, if you were a couple instead of a single.

That’s the word that came to mind when I arrived home yesterday afternoon.  My husband, three sons and some friends are on our annual backpacking trip; thus, I came home to an empty house.  The white board (the command center of our home) had a message waiting for me – lyrics to a song – that let me know, um, that my absent husband is looking forward to seeing me soon.

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It’s good to be home.  Funny, both directions of this trip were home-comings.  The Chicago area will always be home to me, the repository of my childhood memories.  But the people, the places, even the most fixed of landmarks, change while you are gone and only part of it is the familiar place you remember. 

Home is this space where God has placed me. Home is the people I love, the jobs I’ve been given. It’s a good place to be.

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The summer I was 18 was a betwixt-and-between summer.  I felt dislocated and dangling.  I was estranged from my father and step-mother, not welcome at their house.  I had a place to go in the fall, but three blank months before me. I was in California without transportation nor the money to go to a sibling’s house in the Midwest. I worked at four or five different summer camps, traveled to play the piano in friends’ weddings and filled in wherever there was a need –  really, wherever I could stay.

One week I was at a friend’s cousin’s mom’s house (a stranger to me) and broke down in tears, lamenting my “homeless estate”.  I cannot remember this woman, her name or her appearance; but her words are burned into my brain. “You are in such a great spot, Carol,” she began.  “You have nothing to hold onto but the Lord. Look at me – I have a nice home, a good husband,  my children, etc.  These are gifts but they can also be temptations to place my hope and my security in, instead of trusting God. God is your home, God is your refuge.” 
 
Now that I’m home, I need to catch up on many things.  My next year of school is sketched out, but I need to work on the details, type up schedules, revisit Algebra II, make sure I have all the books I need. Soon. Only after I sit on the deck with my man and talk and talk and talk and listen and listen and listen.

“The perfect journey is circular – the joy of departure and the joy of return.”
                                                                         ~   Dino Basili

Fine Art Friday on Thursday – Kee Fung Ng

Sampan Girl by Kee Fung Ng

Girl with Little Brother by Kee Fung Ng

Chinese Chess by Kee Fung Ng

Girl with Little Sister by Kee Fung Ng

 

This seems to be my China week.  I saw the Chinese cello maestro, Yo-Yo Ma, in concert (still glowing!).  Blog sistah Amy is over in China on a medical mission and blogging about it at Amy Loves China. On a more prosaic level, my siblings and I went out to a favorite Chinese restaurant, New Star. My sister Margo, a New Star patron for almost 30 years, is on a first name basis with Tom, the owner. 

While we were eating my eye was drawn to a large painting on a wall in another section. Four children are sprawled all over the bow of a junk, dangling their legs.  The children’s faces were joyfully serene.

As I walked over to get a closer look, my sister summoned Tom, who graciously answered my questions.  According to Tom, Kee Fung Ng is little known here in the states [although he does have a gallery in San Francisco] but is very well known in Hong Kong.  He felt lucky to have an original Ng painting.  They used to have another one in the store but his father liked it so much, he took it home.  Father has passed; step-mother still has painting. Exit Tom.

Googling “Kee Fung Ng” found these plates. They don’t compare to the painting in New Star, but it’s the best I can do.

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I see two of my best friends from childhood soon!  Ruthie is coming over today to spend the afternoon with me.  And Michelle (Micky to me) is stealing me away Friday for a day in downtown Chicago.  There’s something about the pulse of the inner city, particularly the Loop, that gets my countrified blood accelerating.  Will we hit the Art Institute or see the King Tut exhibit at the Field Museum? I’ll let you know next week!  Both of us much prefer museums to shopping, but however we spend the time, we shall be talking and listening to one another. 

Dear, old friends are such a comfort.  We’ve been through thick and thin, hither and yon, painful moments of grief and great times of fun together.  No matter the amount of time since we’ve last talked — it takes only a moment to pick  up the threads of the relationship and be knit together.  

By Saturday evening I will be back in my own home!  My guys at home are back-packing so I won’t see them for another day after I return.  Sigh. Hat tip to Diane for quote:

An enormous part of my past does not exist without my husband. An enormous part of my present, too.  I still feel somehow that things do not really happen to me unless I have told them to him.   ~ Anna Quindlen

     

Yo, Mama! I Saw Yo-Yo Ma! (or a Glorious Evening)

What a gift!  I can’t articulate it all…but it was Wonderful!  The Ravinia Festival is such a lovely setting.  There is an open pavilion that seats 2,000-3,000 people. Tickets for the pavilion are $$$pendy and were sold out immediately. Surrounding the pavilion is a large park with abundant trees, paths, and speakers situated so all can hear.  Every square inch of ground (another 2000 people?) was filled with picnickers in lawn chairs, blankets, and lovely feasts.  There were many wine glasses and fancy hor d’oevres as well as buckets of fried chicken and the ubiquitous bottles of water.  The cicadas joined in the noise of the throng.

We arrived at 5:00, set up our little picnic and enjoyed my 2 year old grand-niece as we waited for the 7:00 concert.  In our lawn chairs we could not see any musicians but could hear them perfectly.  My BIL walked me to the rail around the pavilion where I could stand and get a glimpse of Mr. Ma performing.  The Chicago Symphony opened with “The Three-Cornered Hat” and we sat around enjoying it.  

Then such a bonus! Yo-Yo Ma played the Haydn Cello Concerto in C Major, a piece not on the original program.  The minute I heard the cello, I jumped up and made my way to the railing.  My family knew they wouldn’t see me for a while.  When I got to the rail, crowds were 5 people deep trying to see the maestro. I stood, waited, tilting my head this way and that, and as people moved on, inched closer to the front.  

Finally I could see him playing. He wore a white tuxedo coat with black slacks and a black tie.  The cello shined in the spotlights, the warm hues of the wood in great contrast to the sea of black and white surrounding it.  The music of Haydn flowed through Mr. Ma’s body so naturally; so much a part of him.  At the end of some phrases he almost propelled out of his seat with the flourish.  

I loved this: when the cello solo was silent for the orchestra playing, Yo-Yo played along with the orchestral cello part.  That man loves music so much that it seemed he couldn’t sit back and wait for the next solo part – he was involved with every part of the music.

Watching his bowstrokes was fabulous.  The bow sometimes very close to the instrument, very controlled.  At other times it was dramatic and anywhere within five feet of his cello. He played the difficult notes up by the bridge so skillfully and the overtones were … perfect.  The sound that came from that cello was so full, so rich, so complete.  Tears filled my eyes as the ache of the incomparable beauty washed over me.  

Thousands of people were perfectly still and listening with an unalloyed intensity. Some heads nodded with the music, others were perfectly still.  I loved seeing so many younger people in the audience.  It was a tingling sensation to participate with a culture that appreciates beautiful music.

With the last phrase the audience thundered applause and Mr. Ma was up on his feet giving the conductor a bear hug.  No polite handshaking and chin-dipping here.  There were hugs all around.  I loved that about Yo-Yo Ma. 

During the intermission most people left their posts at the pavilion railing.  I was rooted to the rail though, not wanting to miss the opportunity to be in the front when the concert resumed.  A woman my age was the only other person still hanging at the rail and we started conversing.  Her 8th grade daughter, a cello student, was attending but on her blanket.

As people made their way back to the seats a woman approached me and said, “Excuse me…I have four tickets here for the pavilion and I’m headed home,” as she thrust them into my hand. I gave two to the other woman (that 8th grader couldn’t miss this opportunity), and ran 200 yards to the back where my people were.  I grabbed my brother and we ran (I know –  it’s a funny thing to picture) to the pavilion before the music began and seating stopped.

The next piece, Azul, was by a modern composer, Osvaldo Golijov (b.1960).  The world premiere was on Friday night with Yo-Yo Ma in Boston. There were different instruments, different sounds.  At first it sounded Slavic, then Middle-Eastern, but the prevailing “flavor” seemed like the African plains.  

The final piece was the orchestra playing Ravel’s Bolero.  The conductor conducted the piece with no score!  Most of the time he held the baton backwards with the point facing him.  Watching his hands move, not in the usual four-four pattern but expressively with flow of the music, was captivating. For much of the piece the violins were held and played like guitars!

Darkness descended and the light of citronella candles gave an twinkling ambience over the area.  It was everything and oh! so much more! than I anticipated.  What can I say? One of my life goals has been accomplished.  God has been very kind to me.  I sincerely thank my sister Margaret and her husband John for giving me this incredible gift.                   


A Picture Story

Soon and very soon I will be getting on this:

to go here:

While I’m there I will go here:

to see

Did you get that last bit?  Just in case you didn’t —- I’m going to see

I will see my two sisters and one of my four brothers.  I will meet three great-neices and three great-nephews for the first time.  I will spend a lot of time playing

and a lot of time

and a lot of time sipping tea.

Deo Volente.

The Most Satisfying Moment this Month

Yesterday morning I was watching
my 18 month grandson Gavin.  Gavin knows the ropes around our house, and knows
where the two big baskets which are his own territory are kept.  One is overflowing
with toys, and the other is full of books for little ones.

I was “working” on
the computer when Gavin came into the kitchen from the living room with a book
in his hand and approached me with purpose in his beautiful brown eyes. 

“Would
you like me to read you this book, Gavin?” I asked. 

He nodded his head, and
raised his hands to be lifted into my lap.  We snuggled and read The Two Sons, by Nick Butterworth and Mick Inkpen.

If it were remotely possible for my
body to do a cartwheel, I would have done five in a row across the house.  I
wanted to hijack the emergency broadcast system and make an announcement:

On his
own he asked me to read him a book!  All’s right with the world….

Courtesy

We must choose to be courteous, and develop the discipline of courtesy each day. 

We do not  stumble into being a gentleman or lady. 

The home that has no time for courtesy will always have time for rudeness. 

The home that does not take time for compliments will always have time for complaints. 

The home that has no time for smiles will always have time for frowns. 

And the home that has not time for sweet, loving words will always find time for harsh, critical words.                                                           Morris Chalfant

The picture shows my husband and his sister on their grandpa’s lap.  They loved climbing over him and playing with him.  Recently Curt said, “I can still smell my Grandpa – a mixture of sweat, pipe tobacco, aftershave and pasture.”